The First Steps of a Surrogacy Journey: Excitement, Hope, and Waiting

There’s something incredibly powerful about deciding to become a surrogate. It’s the moment your “yes” shifts from a quiet thought in your heart to a step forward on a path that will change lives forever.

For many people, the first part of the journey is filled with excitement. Talking with an agency, creating your profile, and learning more about what’s ahead often feels like the start of a brand-new adventure. The idea of being matched with hopeful parents—people who are waiting and dreaming of their little one, brings a sense of anticipation that’s hard to put into words.

“Who will they be?”
“Will my wants and needs be taken into consideration?”
“What will our connection feel like?”
“How will it feel to tell them I want to help carry their dream?”

The matching process is full of possibility, and it’s easy to imagine the joy on the other side of that first introduction.

But alongside the excitement, there’s also waiting. Waiting for the right match to fall into place. Waiting can feel like standing on the edge of something beautiful, but not quite knowing when the moment will arrive. And that’s okay, it’s almost necessary. You want to be sure. You want to feel confident and excited about the moment you begin talking with a couple or a hopeful parent.

That’s why it’s so important to have an agency that truly listens to you—your wants, your needs, your hopes for this journey. Feeling supported and heard means everything, because this is not just about carrying someone else’s dream. It’s also about making sure your voice matters every step of the way.

Because when the match happens—when you meet the hopeful parents who feel like the right fit—all of that waiting suddenly makes sense.

The surrogacy journey is one of both patience and joy. It’s filled with questions, anticipation, and a kind of hope that grows stronger with every step. And for many surrogates, the beginning is a season they’ll never forget—the moment they said yes, and everything began to change.

At Willow Roots, we’re here to walk with you through every part of that journey—the excitement, the waiting, and the beautiful connections that follow.

Andrea Sawden - Co Founder & Surrogate Services